Facebook knows ..... Everything

https://www.facebook.com/Upworthy/videos/1278427565531432/


http://thenextfamily.com

The top link popped up on my Facebook feed today .... Spooky timing! We need to choose our names soon!

We also have a talking book just arrived to start creating for LO. Feels a little early as we're not officially matched but the social workers are suggesting we get on it so I guess we better had!



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