Kids are like buses .....

Ok stay with me on this one .....

I don't mean to say kids are often red or green, unreliable and often a bit stinky - although!?

We have been waiting to hear back from the SW of the profile we've read of an out of county child who we are really keen on but sadly haven't had a response. We know he has a new SW so this may have something to do with it.

Then on Wednesday we get a call from our SW to say there is an in county profile they wanted us to look at so we have and we're going to try and get some more info on them as well. Last report was from May and they will have started preschool in Sept and it will be interesting to find out how that is going - they have some social anxieties that might make it challenging but will be very reviewing to see how the change is coped with.

So "kids are like buses" refers to the frequency they turn up not the other things.


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